It took a loooooooooong time to perfect our wedding website but we finally published it this weekend. YAY! Lots of pictures including paktor, ROM and engagement pics.

Purposely upload so many pics so you won't be bored with wordy content. Take our quiz and see how well you know us or help to choose our honeymoon destination. Play some games and read about His&Her version of how we got to know each other. Lastly, leave us a message in the guestbook! Thanks!

If cannot bother to go to the website, here are 5 of our engagement shots.


Carousel in Chinatown


Tourist shop in Chinatown


Graffiti wall at LA's Artist District


The people of 1920s? Flapper girl and gangster!




P.S: Lots of love to the host site http://www.weddingwindows.com/. Our wedding website was super easy to set up with lots of customisable content and colours. Highly recommended!


Strut your stuff on Vivienne Tam's (virtual) runway! Just pick your favourite dresses and rock it to the cool beats. I did too.
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Not Kelly and I. Our invitation designer, Alissa, was featured on MarthaStewart.com as a 'Dreamer into Doer' and one of the invites she chose to feature was ours!


The actual design is Alissa's brainchild but Kelly and I got her started with a huge zip file of Art Deco pictures and inspirations. Plus we are her first Art Deco project! Ahem, think we can claim some credit right? ;) First draft below.

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The final proof with our wedding colours of antique gold, burnt orange and blue; Deco colours.


Final proof in picture.
We have been crazy busy the past 2 weekends. Now I didn't say it was all work. ;) Will post fun stuff next few days. Wedding updates for now.

Kelly and I took our first Argentine tango class this Sat. Being newbies, we were paired with the veterans. The instructor kept telling us not to look down at our partner's feet or memorise steps but to let our partner lead and focus on their shoulders. Well, one of my partners was wearing a V-neck tee which showed off part of his hairy chest. It was quite distracting to look at his shoulders because my eyes naturally got drawn to his chest hair! I ended up peering at the ceiling and got reprimanded by the instructor.


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Just an example but see, how to look at shoulders like that?!

When class was over, Kelly and I stayed back to practise. The instructor observed us and said we both want to "be captains of the ship" and if there are 2 leaders, who's the follower? So I had to step back and accept K's lead while K has to be more sensitive to my body movements. At this rate, I dunno how we are going to do a decent tango for our wedding. *fingers & toes crossed*

Over the weekend, K also rented his full wedding gear which consists of ... tuxedo, pants, shirt, vest, tie, cufflinks and patent shoes. Who says only brides get dolled up? I HAVE NOT seen a guy wear patent shoes before and I am going to bet that K's feet will be shredded to bits at the end of the wedding. At the store, they didn't have Kelly's size for the tuxedo, pants and shirt. The only reassuring thing the salesguy did was to take K's measurements. So if all goes well, K will look like this with a tie:


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But we won't know until we collect his gear 2 days before the wedding. *fingers & toes crossed again*

On Sunday we met up with the tailor. Manij came highly recommended by one of the forum brides. Her clientele is mainly Hollywood including Angelina Jolie! and she only does wedding gown alteration through recommendations. As I chatted with her, I get the feeling she is not into the Hollywood scene at all but is just doing something she enjoys. Manij is from Iran where she had a psychology major. After graduation, she went into teaching but got sick of it after many years. So she left for America and decided to do something totally different.

Reminds me of stories we hear about Filipino maids who have degrees but has to work as a maid cos that pays better than jobs back home. It's such a waste of their talent! Makes me thankful that we have better opportunities in Singapore. Manij is different though. She likes her job and doesn't see it as beneath her status. In fact, she says she likes to read the minds of her customers. Gulp!


My gown as advertised on Paloma Blanca's website.


This is what it will look like after alterations.


At the back, I am doing a 2 tier pick-up bustle.


This is how the front of the gown looks like after being bustled.

Besides altering the size, I am asking Manij to create a sweetheart neckline and make a champagne colour sash for me. She will also help me sew in bra cups with some padding. Manij showed me this C-cup dress she created for an A-cup actress. There was so much padding it felt like you were bumping into a wall. I hope mine isn't like that.

Sorry for being so cheong hay (long winded). I am getting to the end of my entry. Last Saturday, K & I also went to rent a cheongsam for my second change. Decided to go all out and bedazzle the ang mohs with my sequin choice. Look getai anot?

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I was reading that a (unnamed) newly joined SIA stewardess reported her supervisor for rape in Abu Dubai. The facts are not out on whether the girl made a false allegation or whether the guy was guilty. But I am highly appalled at comments left on the article.

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Re: SIA steward accused of raping colleague - 05-09-2008, 03:51 PM
Ai ya.. It is normal lah. Air steward are expected to screw the newbies leh. Just that the newbie got culture shock. I was once in one of the best airline in singapore (cannot reveal which one but it is the best in singapore). I was a happy man. Got husband, no husband, got bf, no bf, just whack only. Some girls even hint lor. You think all angels there is it? Hahaha. I miss those life. Can screw like nobody business. Sometimes stay like 3 days there, can even have 3Ps. They dun mind one and all your so called colleagues change every tour/shift so you get to screw different pu*sy every trip

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Re: SIA steward accused of raping colleague - 05-09-2008, 09:47 PM
They are willing party lor. I dun force them. But I know newbies need some supporting pillar or someone to guide them and thus, getting themselves disadvantaged. I think politics in the airlines are the worst. Finance politics are really peanuts. Pilots are usually the lucky one because they are the one who do your appr*****. Dun want to reveal too much. Anyway, I already quit. Can tell you all inside the girls really like public toilet. Anyone can use as long as you can find the toilet door. Don't even think that married or attached will stay faithful. There is a saying, as long as you are flying, you are single Anyway, it is up to you all to believe me. Don't kp if you all dun believe because I never say what I said was accurate. But you can ask your flying friends how many public toilets are flying And also how open their door is to toilet users.

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"i know a SIA stewardess who is still a virgin. dont believe me? hard to believe? ok how bout i know a SIA stewardess who has only one bf and is very faithful to him. also hard to believe?Gosh!ok ok how bout i know a SIA stewardess who has nvr had sex overseas with other men after flt? nvr! still dont believe?holy cow! really? :eek:
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  1. These men think that just because there are air stewardesses who are non-virgin, that all air stewardesses are non-virgins.
  2. These men think that just because there are air stewardesses who sleep around, that all air stewardesses have low morals. To them, they are prostitutes.
  3. These men can actually adopt a flippant and sarcastic tone when responding to a CRIME.
  4. These men do not think a CRIME has been committed.

Right now, I wish the most horrible things to happen to them. They shouldn't be allowed to fly. Ever.

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next time when you arrive at the bus stops you frequent, make a note of the 5 digit bus stop number. with that, you will be able to get the arrival times of all buses at one particular stop through this link. kudos to the guy who took the effort to make our lives easier.

alternatively you can use SBS's online service but you will need to enter the bus number, the direction and bus stop you want. And if you already know the bus stop number, you will still need to enter the bus number. so might as well use the first link. i think SBS should just use the guy's link on their website.


~ kapok this info from Mr Brown's website.
i feel chilly wearing tank top and shorts at night.

having said that, this has got to be one of the most colourful fall season, fashion-wise. flower prints, big bold statement jewelry, jewel tones and lots of leather. i like! too bad i am saving for the wedding or i will go crazy shopping!
My favourite vintage bride is selling her wedding dress!!! All together now, aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh!

You might recall that I love drama in my wedding dress. Though the gown I eventually bought is high quality silk with a beautiful classical silhouette, in a little corner of my heart, I still wish for a gown with more flair.

While browsing through the vintage bride's blog today, I saw my chance! It is by no means my dream gown. That would be the Vera Wang Luxe Callalily which retails for $8000 - $13,000 USD. I certainly don't have that sort of moolah so her gown at $320 USD is a siren calling out to me. It helps that she wears it so beautifully!


This is a pic from the gown manufacturer. I think the vintage bride looks more chio than the model! Below are her wedding pictures. I love the scalloped lace hem.

Description of Dress - "This one-of-a-kind creation is all about the layers of lace and organza! The bodice is trimmed with a thin row of beads which continue onto the spaghetti straps adding just the right amount of sparkle to the delicate look of the gown. The skirt of the gown begins to flare just below the hips giving the gown fullness and personality. Ruffled layers of lace and organza start below the hips and continue to the end of the semi-chapel length train. The dress was already bustled and it has its original scalloped hem."





All pics taken from vintageglam's blog and her onewed site.


So gals, what do you think? Should I buy the dress?

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Want to make your eyes more alluring? Designer Anthony Mallier from India created the 'Sparkle' contact lenses so your eyes can “Sparkle like they’ve never sparkled before.”


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These special lenses were created for the 'Crystal Vision' competition organised by Designboom and Swarovski. Taking the theme literally, Anthony fused tiny Swarovski crystals in a circle around the edges of the lenses to create the 'Sparkle' contact lenses. For his efforts, he was placed second in the competition.

I am intrigued, even a non-contact lenses wearer like myself. I would get a pair if they were for sale. Would you try the 'Sparkle' lenses?
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Ooh, I found out today that Seafood Paradise of Defu Lane (home to the absolutely delicious creamy butter crab) has opened a new branch at Singapore Flyer complex. So besides No Signboard Restaurant at Esplanade, we now have another convenient seafood place downtown. Great for bringing overseas visitors too.

I was reading Wong Ah Yoke's review of the new branch. Just the names of what he tried got me salivating!
  • Deluxe combination of Thai-style abalone cube and barbecue pork crispy bean curd
  • Seafood trio with supreme porridge stock
  • Prime rib with BBQ white pepper sauce
  • Baked pearl lobster with special creme sauce
  • Homemade ramen with crab meat in chilli crab sauce reduction
  • Chilled aloe vera with honey lemonade

Got promotion for HSBC cardholders now. If anyone try this place, let me know if it's good ok? I am so craving for crabs now. Chilli crab, buttermilk crab, pepper crab... :(


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The latest in nail decorating technology! Presented at Tokyo's Diet and Beauty fair this year, a special nail art machine scans and prints your favourite pictures directy onto your nail. No more painstakingly painting on flowers or sticking rhinestones. No more ugly streaks of paint or dripping polish. Wonder how long before it becomes mass technology.
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Hi, my name is Hunter.

This may surprise you given my name but I DO NOT hunt. I used to but my previous owner hated the mice and birds I left on his doorstep. Sigh... all that hard work and he didn't want to let me into the house?! Since I don't have to rack my handsome head for presents, I spend my days meeting up with friends around the hillside, eating and sleeping.


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Paul Starr was my beloved owner. He's a makeup genius who has beautified the faces of Hollywood such as Sophia Loren, Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Garner, Cindy Crawford, Jessica Alba, Lindsay Lohan, Mariah Carey ... the list goes on. The stars I hobnobbed with!

Paul was also an incredibly kind gentleman. While I was a little kitty, all alone in the wild, I stumbled into his home by accident. Hungry and cold, I meowed pitifully for food and warmth. Paul felt sorry for me and took me in. Did I mention he also took in a blind dog before he met me? Very generous man. Unfortunately he passed away a few weeks ago. I was lost and depressed. Then there were all these people coming in and out of the house which made me very scared and Paul is not around to protect me anymore.


2 months before Paul was gone, I started visiting Kelly and Ilane at their house everyday. I love walking around the neighbourhood and, K&I always welcome me so warmly with affectionate petting and treats! Gotta love a couple like that.

When Paul passed away, K&I were worried about me. Whether the new owner will love me as much as Paul did. Whether I would be happy in the new place. Most importantly, they were sad that they would never see me again. So when Kelly called to offer his condolences, he offered to take me in. Told ya, I was popular. Anyway, this was a great arrangement. I wouldn't have to deal with the stress of moving after losing Paul and I get to live in the same hill I grew up in.


That's your Royal Highness. Give me what I want. NOW.


Me being all submissive. I think this impressive act of quiet docility deserves treats!


Which cat doesn't like a good nap? Yes, I pass Sit and Reach every year.



Thanks to the Internet, I have friends overseas. Close to my heart is the Singapura cat. Indigeous to South East Asia, my friend has a short coat, large eyes and big ears like me. The light beige colouring is unique to him though. We have so much fun when we chat on MSN. He's extroverted, playful and curious. So easy-going lor! See, he taught me Singlish!
Lin was here for a business trip and decided to take leave for our taitai get-together.

In between exploring Alcatraz, shopping in San Francisco, dining at one star restaurants, getting drunk on Napa, seeing Ivana Trump at Beverly Hills Hotel, gazing the stars at LA Observatory and eating the best damn ramen in LA, something happened. K & I hit a milestone in our lives, particularly mine. Details later.

Lin was the official photographer so it will take a while to get the pics and post them here. Meantime, I shall regale you with my colourful new stuff.


I was over Coach but won't this sunny orange patent wristlet change your mind?

Square sunglasses. I love the subtle brown stripey pattern.

This was the real surprise! A cute flirty sunglass case! Stupid Blogger can't load correctly.


Blue and turquoise satin flats. I used to hate flats cos short people like me need extra height. But where I live, stilettos won't cut it. Imagine tottering in heels, while walking up and down hills. Rhymes. -_-


I bought these for cold windy Alcatraz. Good thing we went in summer. I don't know how people actually live there. Love that these soft slouchy boots can be worn 3 ways.

Wedding gift from Lin. Have been meaning to get myself a classic pearl necklace. Thanks dear.

Cookbooks from Lea. She gave me 2 when I came over last year. And they boosted my non-existent cooking skills tremendously. When I mentioned it to her, she offered to buy and ship me more. But I didn't want her to go through all that trouble. The thoughtful girl remembered and bought these to tongbang with Lin. Muacks! Hugs to Lin for bringing them here. Not to mention, the masks, kaya and bridal mag too.


I want to be an offbeat bride.
No white dress, check.
Leather gloves, check.
Bright coloured shoes, check.
Masquerade party, woohoo!

But as I search for wedding accessories, I realise the whole bridal industry is a conspiracy to make all women look like demure princesses. *rolls eyes* My dreams of being an offbeat bride are shattering by the minute as I make one purchase after another. The gown, these earrings...



I didn't like this pair initially cos I thought the shape was odd. Didn't help that Saks website had one ugly picture of them looking stiff and unmovable. Until I saw this bride with them. We have an Art Deco theme and the simple geometric design is perfect for it.


I was inexplicably drawn to these vintage clip earrings the moment I laid eyes on them. They are more than 20 years old but are in mint condition. The picture does not do justice to how sparkly the rhinestones are. Plan to use them in my bouquet.


This is the only offbeat accessory in the lot. Currently the birdcage veil is looking more like a turban. I know K is horrified and I'm hoping the hairstylist can work wonders.


Sigh, I spent ONE MONTH looking for the perfect shoes. Friends tell me that the shoes are hidden under the dress anyway, who can see? But if I have less stellar shoes, I will feel like the girl who's all dressed up in a sexy cocktail dress with granny undies.

I have found not one but many many perfect shoes. The problem is they cost above USD400. Times like this, I wish I was a real Beverly Hills taitai. But since I'm not, I have to extend mercy to K's wallet. So I settled for these champagne heels. They look sparkly and nice on my feet but I am getting further and further from my offbeat dreams.

I think it's time I start being more conscientious about using anti-aging products. I am lazy when it comes to skincare. My usual routine is a simple 2 step - wash face, put on moisturiser. When there is some big event, I do a mask the night before. But if I want to age as gracefully as Cherie Chung or Maggie Cheung, I better start my regime now.

So gals, can you share any effective miracle product you know that combines anti-aging, moisturiser and SPF? I have been using Lancome moisturiser for a while. Imagine my delight when my research turned up the Absolue Premium BX Creme which has everything I need! But I just bought a new moisturiser so going to finish that first.



I asked the salesgirl at Lancome counter about the difference between their anti-aging products and she recommended Lancome Primordiale Skin Recharge moisturiser for me. It's targeted at younger women, more for prevention rather than repair. By the way, if you compare an Asian and Angmoh woman of the same age, the Asian almost always looks younger. It's all the makeup women here apply. That's why the salesgirl think I am young. Muahaha! So move here if you want to look younger. Time-wise, can turn back 14 hours of your life.

Back to the moisturiser, I love it! It smells like roses and is non-sticky. Best of all, the effects are immediate! I put this on and my face is smoother and softer. Even when I wake up the next day, my face is still smooth and soft. Even when I skip my moisturiser for a day, face still retains the softness and smoothness. I have recommended it to another friend of mine who's equally laidback about skincare. ;)

So I don't know if I should move up to the Absolue Premium BX Creme. Will it be too strong? Any other creams, lotions, serums that you can recommend which I can buy in US?
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In 2000, it was 11%. Fast forward 8 years later, the figure has jumped by almost 4 times. Shows how much the immigrant population has grown in Singapore. If this trend continues, true blue Singaporeans will be a minority in a few years.

Read article here
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Laugh until peng man. This guy sent a damn funny email to Mr Brown, imploring him to post a bulletin on his blog requesting for all Singaporeans in UK to gather and sing Majulah Singapura. I also seeking Singaporeans in LA. Anyone??

"wah lau. Im writing this to you cos I listen to your podcast everytime in cold and miseerable london and then I walk to work listening.

sometimes almost langah by car cos distracted, sometimes pple look at me think I siao one cos I giggling to myself.

So today admist waiting for documents to be sent to me, I was talking to my friend shawn and we were thinkin "KNN! eeveryday newspaper in singapore say "ohmygod, all this braindrain to UK/USA. Singapore no more talent liao. The government using its major best efforts to entice all these talented people back."

KNN lah. Shawn call the embassy and they say National Day got no celebration. I call Contact Singapore, they say not their par sar cos they under different umbrella. So everyone tai chi shoot arrow everywhere. BEST EFFORTS KI LAN LAH! National Day my gahmen also cannot never come sayang me make me feel singaporean sing we are singapore we are singapore. knn.

so I angry so I call embassy and comprain. then got put through to this woman who was very nice about it as I ranted and ranted. She very patient and exprain she dunno who is sporean here etc etc.

so their basic excuse is "I dunno who is here in london how I invite people to my embassy for celebration?" machiam like they got a lot of invitation cards but dunno send to who.

so anyways, she say that now Aug a lot of students go home, so no point celebrating. I think "KNN LAH! TALK CCOOOCK! Working professionals here no need sing Count on me Singapore meh!" Then she diam diam. dunno what to say. Then she say, "our embassy in london very small, cannot open house". then I think "TALK EVEN MORE COOCK! small then cannot use ong beng seng's many many hotels meh! CDL dunno own how many buildings lor... cannot use one function room ah to Majulah Singapura?!"

Anyways, to spare you the rants, at the end of the day, we agreed that something had to be done.

So on 27th Sept apparently there's a celebration, invite only. So I write this email to tell you so you can tell all your Sporean friends/readers in UK/London to get themselevs on the VVVVVIP special singapura list - contact karolyn_poon (AT) pmo.gov.sg to get them on the mailing list.

Got discounts one she say."

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Just read about PP's earthquake experience in Tokyo. Good thing mother and son are both safe and sound. :) Good thing that Miki was with her. It's the loneliest feeling in the world to have no one around when you go through something like that.

It got me thinking about my own earthquake experience 2 weeks ago. The quake was a 5.4, what experts term as 'moderate'. Just slight damage to structures and buildings.

That morning, I got jolted awake by my violently swaying bed. In my groggy, half-asleep state, I thought it was one of those dreams where you fall and land so hard that you wake up. Then I saw my room spinning, heard the glass cabinets rattling and it dawned on me that there was an EARTHQUAKE.

So I got up and went to stand under the door. Though California is quake-zone, Kelly and I have never discussed in depth on what we to do in such situations. Nor do we have quake supplies. However, we have talked about the safest place to be in the house and that is under the door frame.

After a few minutes of rolling and shaking, it abruptly stopped. To my own surprise, my survival instincts kicked in. I filled up plastic bottles of water, packed a sweater, my passport, wallet and cereal in a bag in case a bigger quake strikes.

Then I tried calling Kelly but the phone lines were dead. Strangely TV and internet were still working. I tried contacting someone online for instructions on how to turn off the gas and water heaters so nothing leaks or explode. But no one replied.

So I went downstairs to my street. I could hear cars whizzing by in the background. But other than that, it was very quiet. No person, no sound, nothing. Up to this moment, I have not been scared. But now, I started feeling really helpless. I cannot reach anyone. I cannot drive. I had no food. I did not know how to turn off the gas. I did not know how to turn off the water heaters. I did not know anyone nearby that I could turn to. At that moment, I felt like I was the last person alive.

I went back to the house and miraculously my phone rang. It was Kelly's stepmom calling to check if I was alright. I was so relieved to hear a voice. After the call ended, I changed out of my pyjamas and decided to check on my neighbours. One wasn't home but another was. He's an old man who had been through his share of earthquakes and was super calm about this one. We chatted for a while. So the upside to all this is that I got to know a neighbour. 远亲不如近邻

Later that night when my initial adrenaline had passed, I was feeling rattled and miffed that K couldn't come home to be with me. Logically I knew he had work commitments. But at that time, all I thought was this is my first time experiencing a quake, it could happen again and you are leaving me to fend for myself?!! I wanted a warm body next to me.

Strangely, I found comfort in my neighbour's cat. Though I have not met the owner before, his cat visits me everyday. That night when the cat did its usual rounds, it felt so good to have him here. Animals can sense tremors before humans do and the cat's presence felt very reassuring.

The next day, it was like life as usual. The news channels ran updates for one day and that's it. We haven't even gotten our quake supplies. Which reminds me, I better ask K how to turn off the gas and water heaters tomorrow.
While searching ways to teach Kelly Mandarin, I came across this article on using building blocks to teach kids English. And laugh and laugh until peng. Here's a sampler.

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Vy shared this personality test on facebook so I went to try it today. *drum rolls*

I am a E (Extroverted) S (Sensing) F (Feeling) J (Judging)! Famous ESFJs include Bill Clinton and Danny Glover. The ESFJ person is warm-hearted, popular, and conscientious. Tend to put the needs of others over their own needs. Feel strong sense of responsibility and duty. Value traditions and security. Interested in serving others. Need positive reinforcement to feel good about themselves. Well-developed sense of space and function.

You can try the test here.
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We wanted customised wedding invitations. So I did a bit of research and found a lady whose works I like. I contacted her and her rates were reasonable.

So we paid her a design fee to create something entirely new for us. Working with her was really easy. She was fast. She had great ideas. She was responsive. I think part of her enthusiasm was due to the fact that she was excited about our ideas and theme. These are her words '
I have to admit, without patting myself on the back, that I really love this design too'

I was going to rave about her in the bridal forum. And then today, I saw that our invitations were up for sale on her website, right down to the wording that I had specially worded to reflect our 1920s theme. Right down to our wedding colours. Again these are her words 'I love the wording ideas'.

Isn't the point of paying a design fee to ensure we have something unique to us? Now every Tom, Dick and Harry can buy the invitations off her website WITHOUT paying the extra we did.

I am disappointed. We had a great working relationship and then she decided to violate it by putting the business and cents above the customer. Does she think I would not see it on her website? I will speak with her to rectify this.